The last Metro-North train leaving Poughkeepsie Station is after midnight at ~12:27am. The last Amtrak train leaves 8:40pm.

Please use your favorite ride share service: UBER or Lyft.

If you arrive after the ceremony has begun, and the bride has not walked down the aisle, patiently wait until the procession is over, and join seating. If procession has taken place, quietly join seating.

Since the wedding is outside, we would prefer guests to look their best while remaining comfortable walking around on grass and garden paths. For ladies, I would suggest dresses/skirts below the knee to floor length (or a sleek jumpsuit!)

Click Here for a short video that describes semi-formal for reference.

Shoes: Stilettos may sink—the chunkier the heels the better! And there will be no judgement from the bride (me) if a cute pair of sneakers or flats make their way onto the dance floor by the end of the evening.

For men: medium-dark color suits with solid color neckties and formal shoes would be a safe bet.

Although there is not a particular color in mind. The theme is “autumn” and “nature” with desaturated or earthy mid-range hues. And of course, black is always a vibe.

Buttermilk Falls Inn & Spa is located in Milton, New York. NOT Massachusetts. And NOT Buttermilk, NY which is much further away. If you’re driving, please make sure you put in “Buttermilk Falls Inn & Spa” with the address to avoid confusion. If the address you put in your Maps application shows the location on the Hudson River, you are going to the right place!