When
Saturday, September 13, 2025
Buttermilk Falls Inn & Spa
220 North Road, Milton, 12547
4:30pm - 12am
Suggested Attire: Semi-Formal
Check back for updates about available activities during the day.
Chamber Music
4:00pm - 4:30pm
Riverfront Patio
Reception Tent
Music Guest: Sonora Collective
Ceremony
4:30pm - 5:15pm
Riverfront Patio
Reception Tent
Please arrive 4pm for seating
Vows & Love
Cocktail Hour
5:30pm - 6:30pm
Riverfront Patio
Cocktail Tent
Drinks, Hors d'oeuvres & Grazing Table.
Reception
6:30pm - 10:00pm
Riverfront Patio
Reception Tent
Dinner, Performances & Dancing
After Party
10:00pm - 12:00am
The Barn
More Dancing & Lounging
FAQs
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The last Metro-North train leaving Poughkeepsie Station is after midnight at ~12:27am. The last Amtrak train leaves 8:40pm.
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Please use your favorite ride share service: UBER or Lyft.
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If you arrive after the ceremony has begun, and the bride has not walked down the aisle, patiently wait until the procession is over, and join seating. If procession has taken place, quietly join seating.
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Since the wedding is outside, we would prefer guests to look their best while remaining comfortable walking around on grass and garden paths. For ladies, I would suggest dresses/skirts below the knee (or a sleek jumpsuit!) Stilettos may sink—the chunkier the heels the better! And there will be no judgement from the bride (me) if a cute pair of sneakers or flats make their way onto the dance floor by the end of the evening. For men, med-dark color suits with neckties and formal shoes would be a safe bet.
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